FAQ

Clear answers so you know what this is, what it is not, and how to start.

South Africa • Online sessions info@shakirabapoo.co.za
Are you a therapist?

No. I am a relationship, intimacy, sex, and alternative lifestyle coach. Coaching is educational and skills-based. It is not therapy, diagnosis, or crisis care.

How do I book?

Booking is WhatsApp only. Message +27 65 934 9855 and I will guide you through the next step.

Do you work online?

Yes. I work with clients online. You will receive clear instructions for the session format after booking.

What can coaching help with?

Most commonly: communication breakdown, repeated conflict patterns, boundary issues, intimacy and sex challenges, consent and expectation clarity, and alternative lifestyle agreements that are not holding.

Do you work with couples or individuals?

Yes. I work with individuals and couples. The best starting point depends on the situation. We will clarify this when you book.

Do you work with alternative lifestyle relationships?

Yes. The focus is practical: consent, agreements, boundaries, jealousy management, communication, and repair after breaches.

Will sessions be explicit?

They can include adult topics, but the tone is professional and consent-led. You control what you share. You can pause or stop at any time.

Is coaching confidential?

I treat your information with respect and discretion. Any limits to confidentiality (for example legal obligations) will be explained in the Terms/Disclaimer.

What if I am in crisis or at risk of harm?

Coaching is not emergency support. If you are at risk of harm or need urgent help, contact local emergency services immediately.

What is the first step?

Message on WhatsApp. Tell me briefly what you want help with and what outcome you want. I will respond with next steps.

Ready to start?

Booking is WhatsApp only.